Tango is danced with one’s nerves, feelings, and intuition, not just with their body. For many adult beginners, this dance takes the longest to feel comfortable with. This is because in Tango just learning the steps isn’t enough to get you through. Tango demands more from a dancer - listening, breathing with the rhythm, allowing the music to dictate what happens next.

Getting ready for a performance is about more than steps - it’s about mindset, preparation, and self-compassion. Every time you step onto the floor or a stage, you grow as a dancer and as a person. Remember - there is a reason people pay money to see live shows. They are not looking for perfection, but for an experience. Don’t show your audience perfect, show them why you dance.

Dance and music are inseparable. Developing a deeper understanding of rhythm and phrasing can transform how you move. Try listening to different genres—classical, jazz, tango, or pop—and notice how each influences your movement and mood. If you are feeling adventurous, try dancing the same couple of steps to different music, and notice how they change with each genre. Pay attention to the beats, accents, and pauses. When you learn to feel the music rather than just hear it, your dancing becomes more expressive, natural, and connected.

Remember, dance is not just about the steps. The art that you see behind each dance step comes not only from the technique, but from the human being that is behind it. Nurturing your mind, body, and spirit as you move through your dance career is essential for your art to thrive.

Dance, like any art form, comes with its fair share of challenges. Whether it’s overcoming performance anxiety, technical difficulties, or personal setbacks, building resilience is key. Think of every day as a clean slate. What can you do today to have a productive day in dance? Even if it is taking the day off, do what needs to be done to help you progress.

As you continue your dance journey, it's essential to recognize that dancing is not just about mastering steps; it encompasses physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Many dancers of all ages and levels tend to forget about this part. Whether you began dancing for exercise or for the art of it, the longevity of your dance journey directly depends on how well you address this part. Sure, dance is loads of fun - you make new friends, you feel and look great - but eventually, everyone has a day when they feel sore, unmotivated, and dare I say, burnt-out. Stick with me through this next part of our series to explore how to cultivate a holistic approach to your dance practice, and ensure that your dance path is long and successful.

As you progress in your dance practice, it’s vital to remember that every body is unique. This diversity is what makes dance so beautiful! Avoid comparing yourself to others, as everyone has different strengths, weaknesses, and physical attributes. This doesn’t mean you cannot admire other dancers, but rather that you should learn the difference between admiration and creating unrealistic expectations for yourself. Instead of striving to look like someone else, focus on embracing your own body and its capabilities. Yes, this can be harder than learning the actual dancing. But the more you learn to work with your body, the more you will be surprised how far it can take you.

But hold on… the path gets trickier for those of us who decide to go pro. The pursuit of perfection can push bodies to their limits, leading to overuse injuries, chronic pain, and a not-so-friendly relationship with the mirror. It's like training for a marathon every day, except with more glitter and way less sleep.

Myth #1: You need rhythm in your DNA. Newsflash: Rhythm is a learned skill, not a genetic lottery ticket. Everyone, yes everyone, can develop rhythm with practice and dedication.